Denise
To Jenny T
Hi Jenny,
To respond to your question, what's it like to have a poop accident, I would say it depends on a lot of factors. It also depends what you mean, like emotionally or physically.
Physically they feel pretty similar, if you are having a genuine accident anyway (the only kind I've had). Having to go so bad it's super uncomfortable, needing to dance or squirm and clench to keep it in. There are waves of cramping which, in my experience, just get stronger and more frequent until you just can't control them anymore and the poop starts coming out somehow or another. I've written a number of pages back about the feelings of poop coming out either all at once, or an accident happening in 'stages' - bits of poop coming out slowly until it accumulates into an accident.
To elaborate on the physical feeling, I would describe it as something feeling inflated between your cheeks, like they are being spread apart from the inside if that makes sense. Sorry if that's too graphic! Then it's a combined feeling of it spreading out and down into your underwear as well as your pants or whatever you're wearing becoming tighter and heavier. Since all of my accidents have been absolute emergencies, they've always been pretty big ones so there's also a feeling of it just being never ending! You don't realize how big a poop can be until it's all coming out in your underwear. Every time I've pooped my pants, it's felt like a damn bowling ball back there. It can be hard to walk properly with a big poop balled up in your pants too, if it settles between your legs a bit.
Which leads me to emotional feeling - suuuper self conscious about smell, the big poop bulge, getting caught, etc. I always feel a total blinding panic at some point, even when I've been alone. Especially when I've had public accidents, I've felt my body go into fight or flight a bit, feeling super hot and tense, shallow breathing, hyper vigilant, just trying to make it to a spot of safety/privacy to clean up. Once that happens, there's space for the other emotions. For me, that includes shame, humiliation, anger etc. I suppose this would depend on your circumstances, for me because my accidents happened due to my inattentiveness/ADHD, I always felt freshly humiliated and just horrible about myself because technically they were my own fault (or at least seemed to be) which made me feel really down about being unable to keep my pants clean as an independent and otherwise well functioning adult. Anyway, an accident is always a pretty messy affair on multiple levels, and I always found clean up very stressful and the emotional aftermath pretty impactful, usually for at least a couple of days I would feel pretty low and a lingering sense of embarrassment and poor self worth.
Phew that's more than I intended to write, but I've had a lot of accidents and I'm still working through some of my feelings about them! I hope that helps.
Curious Guy
My girlfriend of 5 years starting pooping around me this summer. How this started happening is a longer story that I will post in the future if anyone is interested. She is a peritoneal dialysis nurse, black hair, 5'5" 130lbs. I noticed she mostly poops around me with her pants up to her knees, maybe even mid thigh. I have not been able to ask if this is just for modesty of if this is just how she poops.
I noticed when I poop I pull my pants down to the ankles. Most men in public restrooms do this, whether they are wearing gym shorts or suit pants. Most of the time, boxer's or briefs are visible from underneath the (american) restroom stalls. I think when I was younger I would keep my pants up to my knees , but by high school, I was comfortable with my ankles showing in a public restroom.
Did I imagine this, or did I read that most women do not pull their pants all the way down, at least in public restrooms? I think have read some women may go all the way down to their ankes at home or hotels but keep their pants higher in public restroom. I may remember also women may keep their pants up higher for pees and lower for poops? Also not sure if wearing a dress is a factor, as you would be dropping you underwear plain to be see around your ankles if you were to keep them low. What do the ladies do in public restrooms and what do you see other do?
Tricky
Re: Travis; adjacent Mens' and Womens' rooms at the office
An office building I used to work at had a similar setup to what you describe. The Mens' and Womens' rooms were adjacent to each other, the toilets in each both sharing the same wall, and there was a vent between the wall separating the two rooms.
This meant that I could feel the toilet move if I was sitting on it and a female coworker sat on the one opposite to me, and thanks to the vent, we could hear each other's bodily noises or the rolling of toilet paper from the adjacent room.
I've heard all of my female coworkers pee or poop(either saw them enter or exit the Womens' room), and they've also heard me poop(and verbally acknowledged such, and in one case commented on my noises and called me by name from the other side after they saw me enter the Mens' room). It was amusing, if not mildly embarrassing, to say the least.
I shared a few buddy dumps with lady coworkers because of this arrangement and we both knew what the other was doing, although it never progressed to full conversations through the vent(an exchanged sentence or two at most for each party). It was just an accepted fact of working there. I also carried a magazine with me each time I needed to perform a sitdown session. Every time I'd pass this cute 20-something secretary on the way there, she knew what I was going to do when she saw that magazine because I'd come back in the opposite direction 10 minutes later. My looks alone drew the female attention of that office since I looked like a scrawny still-growing teenager into my 30s, which they found endearing, and because they were commonly watching me they quickly picked up on my bathroom habits.
One time I had explosive diarrhea. That same secretary saw me enter the Mens' room with a magazine in hand and heard the caca-phony of noises from the Womens'. Later that day, she heard some of the Men discussing the noises they heard when they entered the Mens' room while I was noisily fouling it up. The Men were debating who it was that did it, as often workers from other floors would go to our floor to get some privacy from their coworkers to defecate. Because I took the handicapped stall in the back that time, the men never saw my shoes while they used the urinals(my shoes were already well known by all the men in the office as I pooped there 2-3 times a day, usually taking the first stall since no on else used it, assuring a greater degree of cleanliness). She interjected into the conversation and told them she saw me entering the Mens' room before describing the noises she heard from the Mens' side while using the Womens', then they all confirmed the time it happened, outing me as the culprit. Word got around the entire office of my intestinal plight that day, all because a female co-worker heard me noisily farting and plopping away through the vent after seeing me enter the Mens' room with a magazine in my hand.Annie
To Thunder
Hi, yes I have had seizures (first absence seizures as a child then grand mal seizures in my mid to late 20s before the brain tumour was found, I even had a stroke and eventually in July 2013 I had brain surgery when I was 27. It was painful afterwards and I had to be out of the hospital in 2 days-hospital said). As for me being constipated I have continued eating healthy, drinking warmish hot water as much as possible, etc. I don't need to be monitored on the toilet. However if I have dizziness caused by my meds I wait until I'm okay enough to walk then go to the washroom. Hopefully that answers your questions.
STEPHEN.P
POOPING IN CAMPERVAN
This morning woke had a wee in the bedroom pottie went down to kitchen had two packets of LAXIDO boiled kettle made two mugs of tea sat in the fireside chair drank tea.I took the mugs back to the kitchen went out to the van sat on the pottie and had a NUMBER TOO .
Jenny
Travis-I'm a little fuzzy on my bottom. not guy leg hair, but light that blood arm hair. So between my athletic cheeks they have no chance against soft poop and 1 ply. I probaby average about 2-4 skids a week my self like your wife...does her normal panties skid like her thongs? On the internet, ladies often say thongs are the worst for skids but I have had some hot takes on that..Did you get skids trying to wipe quickly when you tried to catch that female coworker who pooped next to you?
Jenny T- Do you give up thongs after wiping at school in general or only when you knew you had to wipe at school? I kind of did the same thing, although I just switched to dark thongs in high school and college. I realized over time I actually skidded my full back panties more if I pooped with bad toilet paper, though I feel sticking and stinky whether I see the skids or not. I love the feeling of a good poop and either a good wet wipe, shower or bidet, then a comfortable thong. I do wear boy shorts 3-4 days a week as they are the next most comfortable to me. They ride up my buns but I almost feel them and a thong I do not feel at all unless I had a bad wipe. The white thong though...that's asking for it unless I use more than toilet paper. I really do wipe until I'm clean 90% unless I am really in a hurry or I am working out and my butt will be sweaty anyway. Those drunk wipes though...I'm amazed on how common those are. And I never thought about how messed up the club toilets got.
Lena S. I hear ya girl. Totally embarrassing story, but the antidots is the ability to laugh at it, even if it requires some comic distance of time. We all could experience what you went through, and you literally experienced it with a good friend you so were not alone. I love this forum is we all feel each other's pain and embarrassment, but we also get to experience each other' relief both in laughter and also unloading our bowels! So glad you did not go in your pants! Glad you were able to wipe completely too? Was that one of your most satisfying poops? I can imagine it was unless you felt sick before, during and after that poop. The worse thing when I had diarrhea in my granny panties was not the mess, but that I didn't feel much better after. Also, I am a little of a health nut, but my weakness is Applebee's mozzarella sticks and Outback blooming Onions. My love for those chain restaurant sides is more embarrassing than my skidmarks...
Catherine-Hi SPAS Sis! I totally dedicated the first of the five turds to you! and it was the longest crackling satisfying poop! it did not plop. The last 4 were great and made splashes and plops, but you like you, that first turd was the best. I didn't get a good look as I was too busy feeling great. My next poop I'll look at and take a mental picture for you! In fact...I feel one coming right now (farts)...gotta go!!!
-Skidmarked in SeattleNobody
Reply to Jenny T, Plus Story
Genuine accidents are embarrassing but it is possible to mentally power through them. I enjoy dropping a nice load in my pants occasionally, but I have had accidents too. Most of them happened at school; thrice in kindergarten and once in high school. The kindergarten incidents weren't too major in my life, but the high school one was my most embarrassing. I had had surgery earlier that year and it indirectly led to me having near constant urges to drop liquid loads. I had to time when I got up to go with the waves of urgency, but this particular incident was timed very poorly and I let it out as I was getting into the stall. I ditched my underwear and tied my jacket around my waist to his the obvious staining on the back of my pants but ended up going home because I was feeling sick.
In my more adult life, I've had another liquid accident. Woke up with a strong urge but the bathroom was occupied. I was finished before they were and I had to step carefully to keep it contained in my pants. I'm pretty sure that was the incident that left permanent stains on the pants (oof). Now, I've almost had some solid/mushy accidents, the most recent being today. I prefer the mushy or solid ones because they stay contained much better and are less likely to leave stains. It feels a little weird as it comes out and spreads across your bottom and up the back, but that's one of the things I enjoy about it.
If you're curious, don't be afraid to try it. At worst, you lose a pair of pants.
As to why I visited today, as mentioned above, I almost had an accident today. Woke up and laid around for a bit until I told myself I need to get up and go to the bathroom encore it gets too bad. Once again, I found the bathroom occupied. I normally wouldn't care to let it out, but it felt liquid and I had less than 30 minutes to leave for work-far less time than I needed to clean myself up-so I had to endure. I waited and waited and held wave after wave of desperation. I started to wonder if the bathroom actually was occupied, so I went to check and heard movement inside. I went back to my room and waited and waited some more. Twice, I nearly lost it. I even felt some trying to slip out, but I managed to stay in control. Person finally left the bathroom and I immediately went in. The smell of their poop was strong but I didn't have enough time to care, so I plopped my butt down and let it out while I covered my nose/face with my shirt. Once I finished (there was quite a bit of mush in there), I flushed and went back to my room to change into my work clothes. I'm at work now about 4 hours later and I think I feel some residual fecal matter in my guts finally getting ready to want out, but I've also been feeling it for 4 hours and it still hasn't happened, so…
Bianca
Slow Start
My poop has been slow these past few days. I ate some sunflower seeds for snack at home. I started going a bit more recently today, and felt waste caught up my butt. I feel that I passed most of it now. My poop after dinner smelled a bit stronger, and started out looser. Although part of this ordeal was somewhat uncomfortable, I'm glad everything came out ok. Hope you all have good poops.Annie
Somewhat hard poop
Hi everyone been kind of constipated so didn't feel like posting since I was only passing small nugget-like poops. Nothing substantial. My stomach has been pretty bloated over the last couple of days and I have been eating healthy and a good amount. I've also been increasing the water I drink too. Just finished dinner (a plate of rice with small shrimp, green peppers, chili peppers, green leafy vegetables), took my medications and a few minutes ago I got the urge to poop so I grabbed the Walmart bag, took my bedroom flip flops off, opened the door, put the flip flops on outside my room, turned off the light, closed the door and walked to the washroom. Turned on the light, went into the washroom, closed the door, walked to the toilet, pulled my baggy sweatpants and high cut green underwear down and sat on the toilet. Peed first (a long pee) then pushed out a hard poop. It didn't feel good coming out of my butt (haven't been drinking enough water lately). I pushed out the last of it, pushed back my sleeves, reached into the Walmart bag, grabbed the toilet paper, grabbed some, put the roll back into the Walmart bag and put the Walmart bag on the floor. I wiped my vagina first then leaned forward slightly and started wiping my butt. I wiped until my butt was clean and put the toilet paper into the toilet. Pulled my pants and underwear up and turned to look in the toilet. There was a hard medium brown poop and a bunch of little pieces sitting in the toilet. I'm not sure how long the poop was but it was long and hard. Flushed the toilet and it went down and had to flush again because a piece of toilet paper was still there. Yup everything went down fine. Washed my hands at the sink, grabbed the Walmart bag, opened the door, turned off the light and left the washroom. Went to my room, took the ugly beige flip flops off, turned on the light, opened the door, went into my room, put those flip flops on, closed the door, dried my hands on the towels in here, came to the bed and now writing this. I feel better after pooping that out though it hurt and I'm not 100% empty yet. Hopefully later after more water I will be. I hope everyone is staying safe, healthy and happy.
Happy pooping and peeing!
AnnieThunder
To Annie and Shayna
Firstly Annie. You said you had neurological problems and had a brain operation. You mentioned you were constipated. Should you be accompanied whilst on the toilet in such situations? My continence nurse recommends it . I am very likely to call in at my therapist ( if she is there and have a small enema and help me poo in her presence . Will report back if I do . To Shayna ….. how good and liberating does it feel after a big BM ? ThunderLena S.
Massive embarrassing dumps
Hi everyone, I'm back again. I think my last post was on page 3066. To recap I'm a 24 year old girl from upstate New York, about 140, with wavy brown hair.
My boyfriend and I recently broke up and one of my good friends, Katie, took me to Oneonta for the weekend to clear my head. We got salads for lunch and I had an antioxidant smoothie. We went to an a few stores and shopped around for most of the afternoon and I could feel my stomach starting to turn a little bit, but it seemed like I was just digesting. Katie decided she wanted to go to Applebee's for dinner, I wasn't too hungry so I just had some mozzarella sticks and a couple of drinks.
After we got back in the car I started to feel like I might have made a mistake. My stomach cramped up almost immediately as we turned back onto the main road, and I hunched over a little bit in the passenger seat. "Girl, are you okay?" she asked. "I think it was just something I ate" I said as my guts churned. It was only about 20 minutes to get home but I was already starting to get desperate, and I let out a loud bubbly fart. "I'm sorry, I just couldn't hold it" I said, but without saying a word, I heard a long fart come from Katie's side of the car. "Do you have to poop too?" I asked, and she nodded, while biting her lip with a pained expression on her face. She floored the car as we sped towards the village I live in. As we were pulling down my street, I lifted my butt cheek off the seat and farted again, it rumbled off the seat and I could feel poop wanting to crackle out behind it. "It's okay, we're almost here!" Katie said, trying to keep me from pooping my pants. I would be mortified, even though we were both in dire straits to poop. We both made it into my house, and Katie let out another ripe, loud fart as we walked in towards the only bathroom. "Judging by the sound of that one, you should go first" I said. She nodded in desperation, and went in. Just as she closed the door, I again knew I made a mistake. I knocked on the door and she told me to come in as she was pulling down her sun dress. "I'm about to shit my pants!" I said in pure desperation as Katie sat down and started to pee. I had to put my pride and privacy aside and think of a solution.
I grabbed the small garbage can from the corner, pulled my pants down, and squatted, letting out a loud fart as I did. Katie began to push and I could hear wet, mushy poop plopping into thr toilet as she let out a huge sigh of a relief and a booming fart. "Girl, it's okay, when you gotta go, you gotta-" she said as my huge load began to noisily crackle out. Log after log splatted into the can, the plastic bag making noise as they fell. "Damn girl!" Katie said as more a long log crackled into the toilet. Her load seemed like it was getting more solid as she went on. I farted again and pushed a little mushy poop on top of my mountain of logs. Katie farted and started to wipe, and I felt done, too. "I'm sorry you had to see this" I said as my face burned red with embarrassment. "I'm sorry you had to see me stinking it up. Don't worry about it, everybody does it and neither of us would have made it if we waited any longer." she said. I'm sure it will become something we'll laugh about later but it was so embarrassing for me in the moment. Bye for now.Shayna
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To Jessica:
1) To not poop in three whole days is unusual for me. And until that morning, I hadn't felt an urge to go at all. It snuck up on me, and during the last half hour before my break holding back so much solid shit was starting to get painful lol.
2) I go generally twice a day. A real big dump in the morning, and a smaller one before bed.
3) They tend to be pretty sizable. I have a pretty healthy diet, and my morning dumps are always the biggest. I just pooped 15 minutes ago and it was about a foot long, and as thick as a Red Bull can.
4) I'm 5'11'' and about 140 pounds.
5) I have hazel eyes and jet black hair, and I wear glasses. I've been told I look a bit like a brunette Sharon Stone.
6) I thought I had, at first. When I hit the handle, the water stirred a moment before sucking down the TP and my mammoth load.
To Jenny:
I'll read sometimes when taking a shit that feels like it's going to take awhile-I always bring a book to work with me and use my lunch break to poop if necessary. I have a huge bladder so I can go an entire shift without going pee. Coffee does help, I bring my own and if I'm feeling a little backed up, I'll drink some before pooping.
Jenny T
Accidents and Replies
Hi everyone thank you for the warm welcome. I've seen a few people on here talk about accidents and It kind of scares me how common they seem ahaha. I've been very desperate for a poo quite a few times but i've always been able to find somewhere to go or even squat before any accident can happen. Like today I was travelling to Wales with my family and i had to pop a squat along a country road. I thought I would be able to hold it until we made it to my sister's house, but about 20 minutes away I couldn't hold it anymore and had to just crouch down in a layby to let out a clear, desperate gushing stream. I think I was too well hydrated. I left a huge wet patch on the road which i'm sure confused some drivers lol: I must have been going for well over a minute before I stopped and I didn't have any paper so I sort of had to like shake myself dry. I guess i kind of want to pose the question to those who have had them: what is it like to have a poo accident? both solid and liquid? With how common the stories are i'm scared about when it might happen to me haha. I know Catherine has not recommended it but I almost want to do it on purpose once at home so i'm prepared if it happens for real.
Catherine: Happy Birthday I hope you had a great day!!! Hope the dinner made some great poops as well. I have no doubt you could also get up to 3 a day with some little changes :)
Jenny: Yeah after that I never wore a thong to school again. Was not worth the risk! I always tried to go before, after and on my lunch break so I could take my time fully emptying and giving myself plenty of time to wipe. Our dispensers were very strange. The roll was like pulled through a hole in the middle meaning it ended up coming out very thinand you needed loads otherwise you would get poo on your hands (if your movements were soft and slightly loose like mine are). The thin paper always confused me, like if someone was going at school it was mostly because they're really desperate or unwell so they probably needed better paper! Eventually I just started carrying my own paper in my bag. If I ever heard any other girls going it was because they had an upset stomach but I also eventually convinced some of my friends to start going at school too. We all started this vegan diet together and would all poop up absolute storms so it was just more comfortable to poo when we needed it yet my best friend Grace didn't start doing it until she shit herself once.
I'll also answer your Wiping Survey:
Do you wipe sitting or standing?
I do this kind of like half squat when I wipe in public, but at home I lean to one side and reach back while sitting
Do you Bunch or Fold?
With slightly awkward paper it's easier to bunch, but with proper tp i always fold
Do you enhance your wiping?
I have wipes at home i like to use to make myself cleaner
How long have you been doing this?
Probably only the last year or so. I didn't believe how much better it was until I tried it!
Have you noticed any improvements?
Yeah my knickers definitely smell better!
What type of underwear did you last have a skidmark in?
I think it was a thong
Do you ever get poop on your hand while wiping?
It happens an embarassing amount in public loos...
Pete: Here's my answers to your questionnaire!
How important is privacy when you need to poop?
I don't care if they can smell or hear any of my sounds whether thats the poos, farts or sighs, but I probably couldn't go with someone looking at me unless I couldn't hold it anymore. I wish I could though
Have you ever pooped in a public toilet with the door open before?
No, I always check the door works
Do you find the stink tiresome or inevitable?
It's just inevitable. I can't really complain because my poos always have a really strong earthy scent to them so i'm always making them smell worse!
How many turds are in your average movement?
I always count and when i'm healthy its 3-5
Do you regularly get skidmarks?
Definitely not. With the amount of times I poo keeping clean is priority 1
Do you do a courtesy flush?
Never. Toilets are meant for pooing so it's not wrong for one to smell like it :)
Have you ever done graffiti?
No I can't say I haveAnonymous
Re Katie (modesty pee)
So a courtesy/modesty pee is when you pull down your pants and pee right through your panties?
I'm curious about the mechanics of this. Couldn't you pull them aside to stop them from getting wet?
I'm also unfamiliar with female undergarments. Are they thinner than briefs? I'm sure that if I tried to pee "through" my briefs they would just get completely soaked, then it would pool at the lowest point and the excess would drip off. There's no way a pee stream is getting through 3 layers of cotton.MD Dan
Reply to Catherine and Story
Happy birthday! I hope it was a good one! I have to say I'm intrigued by your comments about having a solid poop accident. I've only had one myself (outside of being a toddler) and I tend to agree with you about the feeling being very unique.
Thank you for the kind words about my recent situation. It could have been much worse and I'm sure it won't be the last time I'm in a spot like that. lol
Kate and I are doing quite well, thanks for asking! We actually just had another opportunity to poop together this past weekend. I was debating talking about it since I don't want ALL of my posts to be about her and it was just a little thing, but since you're asking, I might as well.
This past weekend we went out to a farm to get pumpkins and some ice cream they make on site from their own cows. We got there right when they opened, and if you've been paying attention to my other stories, you'll know this is the prime pooping time for both of us. We parked and had to take a tractor ride to pumpkin patch. During the ride, Kate leaned to me and said, "I hope they have clean porta-potties. I need to take a dump really bad!" I told her, "Yeah, me too. Let's hope they do." We kind of giggled to each other and sat in some discomfort for the next 5 minutes on the very bouncy trailer. When we were dropped off at the field, we both sighed because there were two porta-potties right next to each other next to the corn maze.
We headed over to them, grinning at each other, and saw they were both empty. Fortunately, they were basically in pristine condition, clearly having been emptied and washed out that morning. Since we were part of the first group to arrive at the field, they hadn't even been used yet that day. Kate winked at me and blew me a kiss as she walked into hers and said, "Have fun!" and giggled. I lowered my pants (after checking for spiders and toilet paper) and took a seat. Kate had a little trouble with her door latch but after bumping around a bit, managed to get it secured. I was letting out my pee (having trouble pointing it down into the pit, I'm sure the guys here can relate to porta-potty issues haha) as Kate sat silent for a minute. Suddenly, I heard her moan. I quietly asked if she was ok. She said, "Yeah, just cramping. I'll be ok." My poop started and several logs slid out and plopped down into the water in rapid succession. I heard Kate breathing heavily and finally, a very dense sounding log fell into her water with a huge splash. She let out a big sigh and said, "Whew!" I didn't know if there were any other people around outside that could hear us so I didn't say anything yet. I started wiping and walked out, Kate sat for another minute but just peed some.
After she came out I said, "That sounded painful, are you okay?" She said, "Yeah, I've been backed up for a couple days and it finally came out! I'll probably have to go again later to get cleaned out." We went on with our pumpkin picking and got some ice cream (which was fantastic, btw). She did end up pooping again a few hours later back at my house and clogged the toilet. lol It was a massive log that wouldn't even fit into the drain. I had to break it up with the brush and plunge it all down for about 10 minutes until the toilet worked again.
Anyway, that's all for now! Take care!Catherine
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Jenny SIS: Awww! Thank you! I hope it was the biggest of the five! And that it happened on or around my birthday makes that even more special! I had a really nice snake this morning. It was long and thick. It felt really good. Last night's was more of a pile. I've had quite a few piles lately. I'm not sure why. I like seeing them but nothing feels better than a good long, thick, soft log. I agree with you. I do feel that it is one of the body's most pleasurable feelings!
Gregg's question to Shayna made me think: When you have a really spectacular bowel movement, does it make you a little sad to flush it?
Lastly, Beth texted me a pic this morning of a really big, long, thick poop. She wrote underneath: "Happy birthday, a day late!" Made my morning!
I hope everyone takes a really massive poop today! And please write about it if you doo!
Love to all!
Catherine!Travis
A comment and a quick story
Hi everyone,
Apologies for not having posted for a while. I've been thinking about it but life has just kept me busy recently. I have been reading through the posts as I have time!
Jenny SIS - I thought of you the other day when I was in the bathroom. While I hadn't pooped that day, I've noticed that sometimes when I let off some gas during the day my butt can feel a bit dirty and I'll feel the need to wipe. It's not a shart or anything, and maybe it's because I'm a guy with a lot of body hair? In any case, I noticed my boxer briefs had a small skid mark on them, so guys can get them too...
Also, I'll add that my wife and I have an arrangement with laundry where I do the washing while she folds and puts all the clean clothes away. I have to admit that I generally take a peek at her underwear to see if she's left behind any skids, usually it's about 2-3 pairs per week. She almost exclusively wears thongs though occasionally will wear normal panties.
While I do have more to share about my wife and also some stories about women at my old office, for now I have a very quick story that just occurred that I wanted to share.
As mentioned before, I recently moved to a larger city and now work in a corporate office building. The men's room is small - two urinals, two stalls - and is generally empty. The women's room is all the way around the other end of the hall (think of the shape of the letter "u" to get from one door to the other) but I know the back walls of the bathrooms are shared.
Today after lunch I needed to poop so I decided to head in. It was just before 1:30. I sat down and took care of my business - rather uneventful honestly - and though I had finished, I was sitting for a few minutes on my phone reading through posts here. Suddenly, I head the sound of heels in the women's room and a woman take a stall that had to have been directly behind me. For whatever reason, I quickly decided to time her out of curiosity and started the stopwatch on my phone. I heard her peeing and then there was silence. It's hard to hear the softer noises from the other bathroom because of background noise from elevators running and some sort of maintenance closet in the men's room.
I waited and contemplated giving up. Maybe I hadn't heard right? I needed to wipe up and get going. Then I head it - a flush! (The toilets in the bathrooms have very powerful flushes and the noise is unmistakable). My stopwatch showed 2 minutes, 43 seconds. She absolutely had to have pooped right behind me as I had just done the same.
I suddenly wanted to see who the woman was that had just pooped behind me as I sat on a toilet having just pooped myself. I tried to quickly get wiping, but the worst part of these office bathrooms is the horrible toilet paper. She clearly had a head start on me and I heard her steps leave the bathroom before I could finish wiping, flush and wash my hands. I swore to myself that if the circumstance comes up again I'd be ready to dart out to catch a glimpse of a fellow pooper.
I know a former poster here, Amylee, used to write regularly about her office bathroom experiences and how the "rush hours" were often around 10 AM and 2 PM. I wondered if this woman is a regular pooper around 1:30 and may try to head over there to see if I hear anything moving forward.
I'll try to post more soon,
Travis
Jenny
Catherine - Happy 44th Birthday! this deserves its own post!.
Wishing you good health, peace and healthy enjoyable bowel movements today and for your 44th year! Thank you for the gift of yourself through your stories and posts here on the Forum over the last 10+ years!
As a youth, and even subconsciously in my 20's I associated my big butt with big poops (and skids). Obviously, intellectually and as a fellow health care professional I know this is false, but my gut (no pun intended) instinct believed this even though I knew it was not true (like watching a scary movie that is not real, but the fear is real). Now it's kind of a release when I see a beautiful athlete's or professional's larger rear that it poops, farts and maybe skids like mine. And Catherine you are both an athlete and a professional! Yay for healthy diets and activity for everyone (farts)...oops! I swear I felt my recoil from my white thong underneath my scrub pants on that one! TYI these are old school hospital scrubs, not the cute modern fitting scrubs, but they still show the s
I feel a big poop after that fart. I will birthday poop with you in spirit Catherine! I will post about this one. I know this will be a big messy one!
Skidmarked in Seattle
Skidmark King
To Max the Swiss Gent
I read your note from earlier - I am intrigued by the skidmark comment the most! How often do you get skidmarks, and what does your wife think about them? I also wonder if you ever wiped on the farm when you pooped outside - I bet that would leave lots of skids too lol! As you can tell from my name, I am no stranger to skids in my white briefs - I get em pretty much every day!
Norm
Replies, Happy Birthday Catherie & Jenny's Survey
Hi Sandra, thanks for your reply.
Hi Catherine, belated Happy Birthday! I read your post from 10 years ago. Sorry that you had a bad experience in that church bathroom and the talk after that caused you upset.
Like you say he was just being a kid and I think the mother did the best she could (and at least she blew a fart on the toilet in the middle of it all to very temporarily diffuse things!) I have to say though I think the pastor and the woman's husband could have represented themselves much better and made an awkward situation more comfortable for you. I can't believe that guy was awkward in the shop with you after. Said more about them than you. It's not like they don't poo! You didn't lose your dignity at all but were very dignified throughout but you know that! Glad it hasn't affected you for long anyway and great story for others in a similar situation and handling it.
Hi Shayna, nice story in Barnes & Noble!
Hi Jenny - thanks for your reply and wiping clarification. Also as regards pooping in bookstores, this is actually a thing, it's called the Mariko Aoki phenomenan after a Japanese woman named Mariko Aoki who wrote a letter to a magazine in 1985 saying visiting a bookstore made her want to poo and many more people wrote to say they had the same experience. That wasn't the first mention though.
Please ignore those social influencer types - your butt is your butt and is always the right size for you! Answers to your survey below, good you've filled it in yourself as well!
Wiping survey-
1. Do wipe sitting or standing ( or in-between)
Sitting. Final wipe standing up/half squatted sometimes.
2. Do you bunch the toilet paper or fold ( so something else)
Fold. I don't understand why or how people bunch it and manage to wipe all the poo cleanly away but whatever works best for people and there's no rules!
3a. Do you use anything besides tp ( bidet, wet wipes, unwipe, toilet mirror) to enhance wiping
If at home or in a self-contained bathroom I'll preferably use some water on the TP or a wet wipe if available in recent years. In a regular toilet cubicle, this might sound disgusting but I might sometimes spit on the toilet paper for a bit of moisture to get a better clean. Not exactly enhanced wiping but can help. Never used a bidet in my life!
3b. How long have you used "enhanced wiping?"
Not really enhanced wiping but have used some water on the TP if available for years.
3c. Have use noticed cleaner underwear, less body odor, or any other improvements since starting "enhanced wiping" ( unless you are Catherine, you probably took a huge poop before volleyball practice, got all sweaty, had a huge wedgie, and had spotless white panties when you undressed..haha. I have seen some clean white panties in the locker room..yoy gals amaze me...hahaha)
N/A again I'm certainly not being complacent here Jenny :-)
4. What type of underwear did you last get a skidmark in?
N/A
5. Have you ever gotten poop on your hand wiping?
Yes but very rarely thankfully. Not nice when it happens. The worst is when you think the cleanup is going well and rhen you get some poo on your hand when you least expect it and think where the hell did that come from?!
Response for MD Dan
The question you asked about workers in your house pooping in your toilet during their visit. This happened to me just a couple of weeks ago and resulted in an argument for the couple I had agreed to babysit for. Mom thinks the position of the couple, especially the husband, is kind of extreme. At least the couple took their fight outside as they went to their car, although I could hear most of it from the window of the bathroom where I sat for my crap.
I had taken a laxative that morning just before my 1st hour class. It had been 3 days since I last crapped, I felt bloated. So I skipped lunch and instead sat and tried to get things going. I changed positions. After my muted pee (I lay 2 strips of toilet paper on the water to drown out the noise because back in middle school I was bullied for having a "fire hose)" I gave up on my crap. I tried another time during last hour class but all I could force out was 2 m&m size pieces. All of the toilets were taken after school and I had to practically run to my babysitting job. I wanted to make a good impression.
So here I was seated in their bathroom, window halfway open on top of their bathtub, and I could hear my crap, soft, thanks to the lax, churning in my gut. With a small effort on my part, I emptied in less than a minute, and I flushed before beginning my wipe. I do that at school and other public places too. I don't want to be known as a clogger. It also keeps the smell down. While I was doing that I could hear the couple's argument continuing. He told his wife she was raised "aloof" to the germs kids bring home with them from school. Apparently I was probably bringing some disease in for their 8 year old to catch. Their argument continued as I flushed the toilet a third time. I wonder what they thought when they realized I had heard their argument.
Thursday, October 24, 2024
How important is privacy when you need to poop?
Very. Ideally I don't want anyone around when I need a poo. If I have to use a public toilet I'll usually try to find one that's quiet. If someone else is in there I normally try to wait until they leave so I can let it out in peace.
Have you ever pooped in a public toilet with the toilet door open?
I've only ever seen one ever in my life with no door on the cubicle, but I absolutely did not use it.
Do you find the stink in a public toilet tiresome or merely inevitable?
It is inevitable but I do still think it's really gross. Also I find it really embarrassing if it's my stink and someone else is in there. The thought of someone using the toilet after me and smelling it is mortifying.
Do you regularly count the turds in your average bowel movement? If so, how many turds are there?
It can vary but normally it's 2 or 3.
Do you produce floating or sinking turds?
Mine often sink.
Do you regularly get skidmarks in your underclothes? (be honest)
I do, because of holding it to get home a lot of the time.
Do you do a courtesy flush after the first few turds have fallen?
If I'm at home, yeah, to try to not stink up the bathroom. In public I obviously do to try to prevent smells.
Have you ever written graffiti on the doors of public toilets? If so were the graffiti texts or drawings? (You do not need to give any details)
Not that I can rememberDenise
To Marley
Hi Marley, I'm sorry to hear about your accident! I've had a fair few in my time and I completely understand the feeling you describe. Once you have pooped your pants it feels like a life altering event somehow, and it's hard to make sense of. Like any other difficult life event, somehow the feelings will fade or become less painful over time. Also, you are most definitely not alone. Almost everyone has an accident at least once in their adult life, if not maybe everyone? I've described on this site how a particularly gruesome accident with big clean up like yours made me rethink some things in my life. Sounds like for you it was a one off, but if you want a silver lining at least you have learned something about how your body responds to laxatives, which is useful information to have. I hope that helps, but in any case I'm sending lots of empathy your way!Catherine
Two More Replies
Jenny: You mentioned about having diarrhea in your pants. Yes, that has happened quite a few times with stomach bugs and I have had a few accidents in which I did the whole diarrhea load in my pants. It is so gross and embarrassing! But, yes, having a firm, solid poop in your panties is much different. It is like you described when you hold it as long as you can but, unlike what you experienced, you don;t make it to the toilet in time. It's a feeling like none other than I've had before. I guess that's why I think about it a lot. You lose control and the mass just spreads into a heavy lump or mass. I would never encourage you to do it on purpose. It doesn't work (I've done that a time or two). Only a genuine solid accident will give you this feeling. (Does this make up for honestly not ever getting skidmarks?)
Mina: Thank you always for your kind words! Beth is much better! Thank you for relating about men's poops vs women's poops. I hope you and the three crushes are doing well! It's always good to hear from you!
Love to all!
Catherine!Nicole H.
Reply to Hazel
I while ago Hazel asked if anyone has experiences wetting or messing themselves at haunted houses during Halloween.
I had such an incident a year ago in a haunted house. The whole haunted house was very scary and I can't remember what exactly was so scary that it made me leak. But at one point, I accidentally peed a little in my pants. There was a wet spot about 15 centimeters across on my pants. I was wearing tight blue jeans so it was quite clearly visible. What's even worse, I had to take a public transport to get home, and let me tell you it was embarrassing to get on a bus with a wet spot on my pants. Later I however found the whole incident funny and was able to laugh it off.Gregg
Hi Shayna
Welcome! Great story
Just a question, did you flush your anaconda or just leave it?
Look forward to all the great storiesCatherine
Happy Birthday to Me!
Hi Toiletstool!
I don't have much time but I wanted to drop in on my birthday (Tuesday, 10-22) to say thank you to all the wonderful people who make this forum a safe space to talk about a subject that is not easily discussed in person!
I'm 44 today!
And, I got 44 off to a great start with a really big poop this morning! It was still on the softer side, making a pretty thick pile in the middle of the toilet. I used the washlet and wiped fresh and clean to start the day!
We celebrated over the weekend but we are having dinner out tonight as a family! I hope that everyone is well!
Love to all!
Catherine!Jenny
Jenny T
- Welcome! I am not the first and only Jenny here! I actually went by skidmarked in seattle initially until I revealed my name so readers could see me beyond my dirty underwear as posted more. When you remembered your thong skidmarks, it's funny how sexy those panties are ( for the wearer and a lucky person who gets to see it) but a lot of the times they are very...vulnerable and revealing...and I'm not talking about the cheeks... It is kind of silly. I kind of appreciate my thongs more with that thought as more of my peers are wearing them less! I have found recently my non thongs get worse skids than my thongs at times due to my butt shape. Also those high school skids are no joke. We had the single square dispenser that got your hands dirty and kept you butt dirty as well. And the time constraints you have pooping in high school! Probably more skidmarked thongs in the locker rooms after sports practice than most would admit!
Shayna-
I have seen some posts on social media about the specific phenomenon of having to poop at a Barnes a& Noble. Is it all the coffee and reading? I have seen also in reference to shopping at Marshalls and Target, but Barnes and Noble is pretty common too. I have had some good BM in B & N's but it's been about 10 years. I wish there were still more of the m around. I can definitely relate to the large anaconda that doesn't need a push and feels so good to fill up the bowel. I learned to courtesy flush not only become of the amount of poop, but it usually requires a lot of toilet paper. I remember having an anaconda poop and wiping 15 times and still getting a skidmark on my white thong...well. its a white thong that I had to clean without looking with thin paper so what would I expect...but I was still embarrassed to find it (reflexively until I think of the logic of cleaning ourselves with toilet paper and wearing thongs)
Skidmarked from Columbia
-You are right on the nose ! Those are the most surprising skids when you wipe clean! Sometimes those are worse than when I think I wiped myself poorly in a rush or really really thin toilet paper , then there is the drunk wipe ( right random girl......It's been a while since I had one of those..
Chakamami
- I didn't mean Catherine's friend Beth was seriously sick. I remember she did not feel well after being constipated then passing the big stool..Most of my stools are comfortable but I have had the big poops that hurt if I poop once a day or less.
Catherine
- I thought of you yesterday. I kind of did a "butt kegal" on the toilet to really feel how good poop was: I sat on the toilet and sat for a minute holding my poop even though I was safe on the toilet! I had to deep breath to keep the log in. I timed myself because the minute felt like an eternity. But once my phone timer got to a minute I let my cheeks go!- "crackle, crackle, splash, moan!" Like Shayna I was alone so I let out a semi involuntary moan! IT felts so good, One of my 5 turds I dedicated to you sis! wish I could post a picture to you.
LC
- When I used to bike to work, I learned to stop wearing light colored underwear. To me, bicycling leads to instant skids!. I am intrigued when I notice a beautiful clean looking women pooping in the locker room, then she gets on a stationary bike.
I filled out my own wiping survey and I filled in the empty questions in ALL CAPS
Wiping survey-
1. Do wipe sitting or standing ( or in-between) MOSTLY STANDING WITH SOMETIME A SQUAT. AFTER DIARRHEA I WILL WIPE SITTING DOWN
2. Do you bunch the toilet paper or fold ( so something else) I WAS A BUNCHER THOUGH COLLEGE. I BECAME A FOLDER WHEN AS I BECAME MORE MINDFUL OF USING RESOURCES. PLUH I WANTED TO MINIMIZE CLOGGING TOILETS AS I STARTED DATING AND POOPING AT BOYFRIENDS HOMES
3a. Do you use anything besides tp ( bidet, wet wipes, unwipe, toilet mirror) to enhance wiping -WET WIPES AT HOME, I HAVE USED A BIDET AT A COUPLE HOTELS AND THEY FEEL FANTISTIC. I HAVE SEEN AN AD FOR AN "UNWIPE" AND I AM INTRIGED
3b. How long have you used "enhanced wiping?" SINCE ABOUT 2010 BUT NOT WITH EVERY POOP
3c. Have use noticed cleaner underwear, less body odor, or any other improvements since starting "enhanced wiping" ( unless you are Catherine, you probably took a huge poop before volleyball practice, got all sweaty, had a huge wedgie, and had spotless white panties when you undressed..haha. I have seen some clean white panties in the locker room..yoy gals amaze me...hahaha)- OH YES I HAVE TESTED WHITE THONGS AND WHITE PANTIES AND ENHANCED WIPING WORKS. I HAVE STILL GOTTEN A SMALL SKID EVEN USING WET WIPES BUT THAT WAS AT THE END OF THE DAY
4. What type of underwear did you last get a skidmark in?
LIGHT BLUE BOYSHORTS
5. Have you ever gotten poop on your hand wiping? A COUPLE TIMES A YEAR. USUALLY WHEN I AM POOPING ON A PLANE OR A PORTAPOTTY
Jessica
Question for Shayna and welcome!
Hi Shayna, welcome have some questions if you dont mind.
1) I know you hadn't pooped in 3 days, and was wondering if that's normal?
2) How often do you usually have to poop?
3) What size are your poops usually?
4) If you don't mind me asking how tall are you and how many pounds? I'm 5'8'' and about 160 lbs myself.
5) What color hair and eyes?
6) Did you come close to clogging the toilet?
Thanks
Jessica!!
Princess Toadstool Peach
Building a Compost DIY Toilet/having a Big Poo Afterwards!!!
Hello everyone I'm Princess Toadstool Peach and today I am dressed in my short sleeve shirt and shorts bottomless today along with my friends Bethany Mild, Princess Zelda and Princess Rosalina and we are building a compost DIY toilet for my friend Bethany Mild. All we had to do was follow the steps how to make one. Step 1 - Build the wooden box, Step 2 - Cut a hole in the center of the plywood piece, Step 3 - Paint or stain the box (optional), Step 4 - Add the urine separator (optional), Step 5 - Attach the toilet seat, Step 6 - Build legs for the wooden box and Step 7 - Place the bucket inside the structure. Now that I finished making it along with my friends I really had to make a big poo emptying my dump waste. So I asked Bethany if I could use it and she agreed. So I got inside, locked the door, walked over to the DIY Compost toilet, lifted the lid, pulled down my shorts to my ankles, gave my bottom a little wiggle and sit myself down adjusting myself and squatting to myself. While I was waiting I read one of Bethany's all time favourite books all about how my waste dump can help the flowers grow. Amusing! Then before I knew it I began slowly feel my business crackle and ooze coming out. It smelt awful but it came out before I could say Holy sh…"PLUNKPLUNKPLUNK PLOOP PLOP SPLASH!!!" I finally pooed a lot! Don't know how these things flush. But hopefully I can figure it out one or two ways possible. In the meantime I gotta wipe my behind front and back till the brown leaves town. Hahahah. Bye bye now. Whew! Kinda makes me wish I wasn't allergic to air freshener otherwise I totally spray some right now. That stuff gives me the most terrible rashes and hives you know.Max the Swiss gent
Answering poop/pee/fart survey
1A. When was the last time you pooped?
This morning, six and a half hours ago.
1B. When was the most memorable time you pooped?
I guess somewhere in my teens when I had to poop in school all day and just made it to the restroom last minute. A pretty close call
2A. When was the last time you peed?
Two hours ago.
2B. When was the most memorable time you peed?
Can't really remember. But I can tell that as a little boy who grew up on the farm I peed on some obscure places, I sometimes even pooped outside. No big deal for me.
3A. When was the last time you farted?
Just right now.
3B. When was the most memorable time you farted?
Can't remember. But I can that both me and my wife have smelly farts.
4. When was the last time you got a skid mark?
Just this morning after pooping. Lol.
4B. When was the most memorable time you got a skid mark?
Good question.
Princess Toadstool Peach
Apples always helps making a Huge Thick Poo + Lots of Wee!!!
Hello everyone I'm Princess Toadstool Peach and today I am once again seated upon my white porcelain toilet throne with my panties down to my ankles and reading the newspaper while I release my bowels and empty my bladder. I relax as I sat looking pretty sure of myself and then I feel a crackle and my bottom slowly oozing out a brown thick big poo. It smells terrible but I'm sure I can get it out of there in no time flat. I hope! Soon in no time at all I begin pooing my waste dump out of there. "PFFFFFFFFTTT PAAAAARRRPPPP CRACKLE-PLUNKPLUNKPLUNK PLOP PLOOP SPLASH!!!" No wonder those delicious fibre filled apples did the trick releasing my BM bowels but that's not all. I also need to wee. So I urinate it all out of there before I think about wetting myself "TSSSSSSSSSSSSsssssshhhhhh dripdripdrop!!" Man that pee didn't take long tinkling out of my bladder. Once I finished I am completely peed and pooed out. I then grab some toilet paper and wipe my vagina between my legs and then my bottom front and back until finally I get off the toilet, pull my panties up, pull my royal dress down and then I…WOW Jeepers cripes that is a huge thick brown poo I just made. It smells terrible and in all my years being a blogger on this website I have never EVER pooed out a larger thicker turd like this before. Well doesn't matter. "FLUUUUUSSSSSSSsssssshhhh!!!" Whew I thought I never get that down. Oh well time to wash my hands: OK that's all for today everyone I'll see you next time. Bye bye now.
To Shayna
Shayna liked your story about pooping at Barns & Noble sounds like you dropped a full load. I dropped a deuce yesterday it was huge it almost clogged the toilet! Lol looking forward to seeing more posts from you! My name is Austin by the way!